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In 1942, when Ray Whittaker got drafted into the US Army, he decided to reconnect with a woman he had known during his time in Nashville. More than 200 letters documenting their courtship and early married life were eventually donated to the Metro Nashville Archives in 2016. Stationed at Fort Huachuca in Arizona, Ray resumed communications with her after they had lost touch for about two years.
He had met the woman named Jane Dean while studying at Meharry Medical College. This renewed contact developed into a romance and marriage. Letters that reopened a relationship after two years of no contact
The library does not have Ray’s original letter that reopened the communication between them, but it preserves Jane’s reply, dated July 30, 1942. Ray’s own military service had ended before that deployment in 1943 While the unit was deployed to oversee combat in Europe in 1944. By September 1942, their exchanges had begun to touch on the subject of marriage. On November 7, 1942, the couple got married in Birmingham. The wartime letters found a place in Nashville’s archives Ray’s Army service ended in March 1943, when he was discharged for medical reasons. Ray died on June 12, 1989, and Jane died on July 18, 1999. After being donated in 2016, the archive has been catalogued as the Raymond Whittaker Papers. It contains two boxes of material, primarily correspondence from 1942 and 1943. In February 2026, the Nashville Public Library made selected highlights from the more than 200 letters available digitally.
Therefore, while their marriage had changed their relationship, it did not immediately end the separation that had brought them together.
Jane worked as a medical laboratory technician at Vanderbilt University, according to the Associated Press. She began her letter formally, and addressed him as “Dear Wm R,” before admitting that hearing from him was both a pleasant and a sad surprise. Two days after their wedding, Jane addressed him as her “darling husband” in her letter. The couple reportedly had no children, according to Ray’s obituary cited by the Associated Press.
Ray Whittaker grew up in New Rochelle, New York, and later moved to Nashville to study medicine. There, he met Jane while he was still a student, and the two reportedly became romantically involved before losing contact for approximately two years. Following his drafting into the Army, Ray decided to write a letter to Jane, who was still living in Nashville. The letters from the pair were found in a Nashville home that belonged to Jane’s siblings. The Nashville Public Library received those letters as a form of donation. She explained that while she was glad that he still thought of her, she was worried about him now that he was in the armed forces. In her letter, she also mentioned several mutual acquaintances who had got married, including some who had started their families. Her closing request to him was to write, wire or call her soon. Following Ray’s time at Fort Huachuca, he was transferred to Fort McClellan in Alabama. There, he was selected to help organise the reactivated and segregated 92nd Infantry Division. In an undated letter from this period, Ray hinted that he might propose to her, joking that if he entered the officer training school, he would earn more as a married man than as a single man. Jane, however, was skeptical. She questioned whether his feelings were genuine or whether loneliness and distance had influenced them. She expressed that she wished for him to love her, but not under those conditions. But seeing other women had not brought him the companionship he was looking for. He wrote, as noted by the Associated Press report, “I didn’t find the companionship and love that I so dearly wanted to find. All I ran into was trouble and more trouble. Representative image of Army veterans reading letters from their families. Image credits: Wikimedia Commons Their discussions continued through October, when they settled on Birmingham, Alabama, as the location for their wedding. She expressed that while she was happy that they got married, she regretted that they had so little time together before returning to their respective responsibilities. Jane had gone back to her job and family in Nashville, while Ray returned to his Army post. In her letter, she hoped for the war to end soon and for them to live together permanently. Shortly afterwards, he and Jane moved to New Rochelle, where they lived for a time before eventually moving to Nashville. Alongside the letters to Jane Dean, the archive also contains letters involving his sister, mother, and other correspondents. Kelley Sirko, metropolitan archivist, explained to the Associated Press that the collection offers insight into the couple’s romance during a complicated time in human history. You use AI every day. Now get your AI Quotient. Take the AIQ test.
Ray’s reply to this was more serious, as he explained that he had previously thought the distance between them made their relationship impossible.
The relationship developed through their written exchanges. In his letters, Ray described his time in the Army; meanwhile, Jane shared news from Nashville and responded to his questions about their future. Over time, their responses evolved from merely reconnecting with an old acquaintance to the possibility of building a life together. The decision to marry Jane Dean